Wikipedia states the following....
Emily Post
The high society of England adopted French etiquette in the late 18th century, and the writings of Emily Post aim to offer a standard no more stringent than that tradition. Late 20th century editions building on her 1920s beginning work say, e.g., that "Anyone receiving an invitation with an R.S.V.P. on it is obliged to reply....", and some recent editions describe breaching this standard as "inexcusably rude".
Emily Post advises anyone receiving an invitation with an R.S.V.P. on it must reply promptly, and should reply within a day or two of receiving the invitation.
[edit]Responding as notice of attending
While an RSVP request expects responses from both those attending and not attending - there is discussion suggesting many people misunderstand the concept and do not respond if they are not attending.
[edit]RSVP, regrets only
The phrase "RSVP, regrets only", or simply "Regrets only" is a popular modern variation on the Emily Post RSVP, with the effect (if most of the invitations are accepted) of reducing the communication effort by both host and guests. The host thereby indicates an intent to treat lack of a response offering regrets (e.g., "I regret I cannot attend ....") as indicating intention to be present at the event, and obviates response by attendees.
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My thoughts along with many others is that R.S.V.P.'s can get a little boring.
Sort of the same old same old.
Or maybe a bit too stuffy and proper for your personal style.
Below are some of my favorite fun ways to say 'Yep' or 'Naw'.
___ Will be
attending or everyone will talk about us
___ Will not
be attending but we have spies so watch yourselves
___ Will be
there with bells on
___ Will be
there….undecided about the bells
___ Will be
there regardless of the bell controversy
___ Will not be
there….heard there were people wearing bells
___ Will not be
there….would loved to have worn bells
___ Thumbs up
___ Thumbs down
___ Shall
attend and celebrate with you
___ Regrets not
being able to attend
___ Will tip
toe through the tulips with you
___ Sorry,
don’t have a green thumb
___ Can’t wait
___ Can’t come
___ To be
___ Not to be
___ Gladly
attend
___ Regretfully
decline
___ Regretfully
attend
___ Enthusiastically
decline
___ Will
decline to respond but ultimately attend
___ Think you
are just trying to wrest a gift out of us
Respondez S’il Vous Plait
___ I don’t speak French, but if you want to know if we
are coming….Yes !
___ Pardon my French….We no can come’.
___ You can bet your bottom dollar, we will attend !
___ No, But if you send us your bottom dollar we will
attend !
___ Just kidding about the above statement. We still
can’t attend.
___ Come rain or shine or sleet or snow or tornado or earthquake or hurricane or
typhoon…. we will be there !
typhoon…. we will be there !
___ Very sorry, we don’t work for the post office and
will be unable to attend.
___ We are So there dude !
___ Sorry, surf’s up.
'This one is pretty from Zazzle
Or this double happiness one from Purple Wedding Invitations
Basically the choices are endless, every color, theme, style, etc. that you could imagine.
Myself?
I am making them and of course calling everyone who doesn't respond.
The part I like is the reply by date is 12-12-12.
How could that not stick in your noggin?
'This one is pretty from Zazzle
Or this double happiness one from Purple Wedding Invitations
Basically the choices are endless, every color, theme, style, etc. that you could imagine.
Myself?
I am making them and of course calling everyone who doesn't respond.
The part I like is the reply by date is 12-12-12.
How could that not stick in your noggin?
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