Brittany....Happy Birthday!

This would be my cut and gut baby.
She gets the pun.
Slash and gash is another.
She was a C-section delivery.
Such a perfect face the moment she entered the world.
And a bald head that would last a year and a half till there was a bit of light wisps of hair.
I used to brush it and tell her how long and beautiful it was and she would beam with joy.
She was a charmer as a toddler, demanding the worlds attention everywhere she went with her blazingly happy smile and attitude.
She was the independent one.
So easy to raise, she lived to please God, her country, her parents and her teachers.
You couldn't really ask for more.
Except perhaps a bit less skin and a bit more clothing.
She is so gorgeous even now.






Her brother adored her, he proudly took her for show and tell at school.

And when her little sister came along, she looked out for her as she always would.

There really isn't a greater joy than being a mommy.

Sometimes I look at her and can't believe I made her.

She has made me so proud, her heart is sweet and warm, her brain is strong, her soul is held in God's hands.

She is a Good Human in a world that desperately needs her.

I love you so very much Brittany!

Happy birthday.

The photo is one of my favorites.

I believe it is from Aaron Meyer in Orange County.

Inspired Decor

I made almost everything decoration wise for our wedding.
Way less expensive & definitely more personal.
Not personal as in 'I made it myself', personal in the choice of colors & details, etc..
Like I have said before, it isn't difficult, find what you like & create your own version, just like an outfit.

You must be thinking....'oh my gosh, she is soooo creative, just amazing'.
Wrong, these were not MY ideas.
Plagerism.
It is what I do best.
But yes, I am quite amazing otherwise.

I love glitter.
It makes everything sparkle.
It makes people feel happy, richer, in party mode.



Let me add....there has been glitter in our house for months.
Everywhere.
No really.
Everywhere.
Even on the dogs nose.
Oh yeah....that's not me.
Duh.

Also, carrying the theme throughout keeps it so much more visually attractive.
We stayed with gold, black, white & a bit of silver for color.
And stars everywhere.


VASES
This was one of my inspirations for the vases.




They are not difficult to make & very affordable.
I bought vases bought vases at yard sales & Goodwill for $1 - $3.
If there is a water line stain it doesn't matter because it will be covered up.
I think glittering either 1/3 or 2/3's looks best.
Wash them well & dry, then use wide painters tape & tape a line around the vase leaving the water stain uncovered.
Tape newspaper to cover the rest of what you want to keep clear glass.
Wrap your arm with newspaper & shove your hand into the vase.
Go outside & spray the uncovered part of the vase avoiding just past the edge of the taped area & the base as much as possible.
Over newspaper, sprinkle your chosen glitter generously onto the tacky glass, shake off the excess & set the vase to dry for a day.
The next day, spray with a gloss sealer & let dry again, this will keep the glitter in place so you can lightly hold the vase & also because everyone will want to touch them.
Trust me.
You can also use a piece of trim from the fabric store & hot glue it around the vase at the edge of the glitter, particularly if while removing the tape you end up a bit uneven.
I did use a variety of gold glitters which I really liked
Two suggestions, do the spraying on non windy days, & the sealer is pretty stinky so let dry in a closed off room.
These are probably not for long term use, though they did last through a gentle wash.
I also think they would make lovely take home gifts.

And this is one of the ones I made at our reception, you can also see a bit of another one just to the left behind the candle.
We had a mixture of 3 vases per 8 foot table with loose white flowers.

CANDLES
I also decorated white glass pillar candles that I got at Target for $1 - $1.50 each.
I added a variety of trims from the fabric store.
But what I learned is that being tall & narrow, they are best used on a hard surface away from any people.
For the tables we used votives in glass set in low vases which gave off a nice double sparkle.
We did put the tall pillars in the restrooms & on window sills though.
No photos but I saw this version that I think is gorgeous.




STARS
The inspiration....




We hung white fairy lights & about 250 gold stars on the back patio which is where the ceremony was held & after dinner for a bit of dancing etc..
Christmas made this so easy to do because stars are almost everywhere.
They are still there because they are so pretty.

Inside I strung about 150-200 gold, silver & white glittered stars that I got at Michael's with coupons or on sale & hung them across the room.

As always, much prettier in person.

And more to come next time.

Wedding Who What Where Why When How

When my Aunt Erma used to answer the phone, back in the dinosaur days when they hung on the wall, yes, I was there, I remember my cousin's would often blurt out....
'Who, what, where, why, when, how?!'
I always thought it was pretty funny.
But these questions would most likely cover what needs to be known regarding almost anything.
So....

Who?
Us.
Fred & Amber

What?
Get married

Where?
At home




Why?
Because we absolutely love each other.

When?
New years eve 2012

How?
This kiss.

Wedding Vitlin's

They say that you should focus your money on three things/areas of your wedding.
Unless of course you have unlimited funds & an amazing wedding planner.
Another thought is that too much is just that....too much.
With a smallish budget we chose food, decor & extras as our focus.
Food because I think it is so yummy & you really should feed people if you love them.
Decor because it can create any atmosphere that you want & we wanted a bit of glam.
And extras because it was new years eve & you need extras to make a fun party.

Let's start with food.
I love to eat the really good stuff like lobster & spaghetti without meat & butter & creme brulee & lovely heavenly creamy glorious milk chocolate (go away if you are a dark chocolate fan).
And some of the trashy stuff like taco truck & cola slurpees & curly puffy cheetos & tequila shots.
All that would have been a great dinner mix but a really screwed up tummy afterwards.

Because our ceremony was to be on the back patio & the temperature was to be a high of 50 & a low of 33 we had a propane heater on the patio & also a fire pit in the lounge area under the trees for comfort & the smokers.
But I thought something warm to drink would be nice for during the ceremony.
Sort of the same idea as a cocktail immediately handed to you upon arrival at the reception.
But warm so you don't freeze your ass off & leave.
And of course some cookies to go with it.
Cookies are always good.
Always.
I purchased black hot drink paper cups but they just needed a little something extra.
Gold Christmas tinsel garland it is.
You'll see it used here & there throughout the night.
I hot glued the garland on, THEN after I was halfway through I thought....'uh oh, what if a hot drink rewarms the glue & it melts off?'.
Thankfully it held up pretty well.


The inspiration....




Our cups for cocoa....

We also self catered dinner.
Not too difficult if your wedding is smallish.
Spiral hams are easiest for buffet serving, good bread, salad & a nice mac & cheese with mushrooms & white truffle oil.
The only thing I actually made was the mac & cheese,the  recipe is at the bottom of this post.

As the night went on there were nibbles....prawns with cocktail sauce, a variety of olives, a nice nut mix & chocolates.
I love Salvatore's fish eye photos.





There was plenty of champagne which everyone brought in leiu of a gift, wine from my sister Willow & her husband John, a light punch & coffee.
And of course cake.
We chose to not have a traditional wedding cake, instead, having 3 coordinating cakes.

The inspiration....

                       


Ta daa....



Yeah, there was a dent somehow.
Seriously?
You know what?
We still ended up married.
Even with a dented cake.
Priorities people.
Cakes really don't matter.
Love does.

Also, Fred found the vintage cake topper in a Jamestown antique store.
I love this guy (Fred).
Who does that?




She needed a little work.
I washed her skirt, made her a bouquet & glittered what was left of her head piece.
I absolutely love these two.

Oh, & I don't cut cake.
I just eat it.
This is a forced photo.
If I had cut it, then I would probably wear it.

Okay....the mac & cheese with mushrooms & white truffle oil.
Sort of.

Normally what I want from macaroni & cheese is oozy, creamy, really cheesey.
Not this time.
This mac & cheese needed to be a bit upscale.
There isn't a photo, I was busy getting married to the man I adore.

6 to 8 servings

INGREDIENTS

4 T butter

4 T flour

3-1/2 cups warm milk

Cracked pepper

3 cups shredded extra-sharp cheddar cheese, I got a wonderful white one from Costco 

4 oz goat cheese

1/2 cup heavy cream

2 T truffle oil  

1 cup sliced mushroom + 4 T melted butter

8 oz macaroni or pasta

1 cup of panko crumbs, buttered & toasted

In a small saucepan on med-low heat, melt the butter, stir in the flour & stir to form a roux. Add half of the warm milk, using a whisk mix well. Add the rest of the milk. Using a wooden spoon, continuously stir the sauce until it begins to thicken and tiny bubbles form on the sides (5 to 6 minutes). Do not boil. Add pepper to taste and then the cheese. Mix until the cheese is completely melted and the sauce is smooth. Add the heavy cream & the truffle oil, (optional) and mix well. Cover and set aside.

While the sauce is warming, saute mushrooms in melted butter on med-high heat until beginning to brown a bit. Add to sauce.

Cook the macaroni according to package directions & drain.

Preheat oven to 350. Butter a 4-quart casserole dish.

Place ]macaroni in a large bowl, & pour the  cheese/mushroom mixture over it, mixing well. Spoon the mixture into the casserole. Bake 30 minutes or until bubbling. Sprinkle toasted panko crumbs on top & bake 5 minutes more. 

Serve immediately.

Finally, The Wedding Posts Starting With A Dress & Shoes

Well we pulled it off & were married on New Years Eve 2012.

I think we planned it in about 4-5 months.
Around $5,000, but probably more.
Between purchases, changing things & returns, receipts got a bit mixed up.
The budget also did not include rings.

So how did we pull it off?
Pinterest was a huge help.
And having the wedding on New Years eve set the theme.
Plus I am not afraid to do almost everything myself.

After being a single mom with high design taste & having to create almost everything in my house due to budget cuts, I am not afraid to make things look better.
It really isn't much different than putting together an outfit.
You see something pretty on a celebrity & you find a cheaper version of each piece.
Voila.
Just find a way to copy what you like, change it up a bit, & fake it till you make it.

For our wedding I began with a gold lace dress & ended up with a black lace over cream one because I couldn't fit my ass into the first one.
Oh well.
$48 on sale from dress barn.
It would be lovely to have thousands for a gorgeous Claire Pettibone or Jenny Packham gown but alas daddy isn't paying, nor should he.
So $48 dress it is.
Shoes?
$20 on sale from Payless Shoes.
Once again Christian Louboutin or Valentino would have been fun but I probably couldn't walk far on them either.

So let's talk inspiration & final results.

I wanted a knee length dress or just below, simple in style, sort of like this, just not in white preferably.




And this was the final dress.




These would be my perfect shoes gorgeous & sexy.
Perfect for everything.
PERFECT!




These were affordable & better looking on than in the photo .
Plus I think I am going to glitz up the heel now.





More fun wedding stuff to come soon.

One Theme - ONE !!!

There are so many things I love regarding weddings.
Not rustic or vintage, but I do think I love close to one million ideas.
That won't work. 
I am trying to be cohesive but things just keep tugging at my design heart.
Like this....

Country sunflowers glam'd up....



Bohemian, twirling in a meadow with this on my head and gypsy music....



Love the colors and spheres for a modern look.....



And then there is this totally fun wedding....



Garden chic....



Gorgeous wood cupcake tower, although I would use it for cheese, bread and fruit....



And if you decide to elope, do it right and photo worthy....




But it will be at night and in winter on New Years Eve, so probably more like this....

White and simple....



Pretty lights like stars in the night sky....



Champagne, because it is our wedding AND New Years Eve....



And this will be what I feel like on the inside....



Well of course I would also love this as our exit, with donations it could be possible.

Places Everyone

The tables were set by the chimney with care.
In hopes that....
Oh wait that is a different story.
In the beginning....
Uh oh.
Okay, the tables got done.
Places everyone.

PLACE SETTINGS

'Above the Clouds'
I love teak plates and have used them when I did an East Indian table.
But as chargers....great idea, and under clear square plates.
I would not have used a plain white tablecloth with these dishes etc., it just needed a little texture underneath, and this did not work with the theme and centerpiece of an angel in clouds.

'New Years Eve in New York city'
My favorite part of this is the flatware.
The color was beautiful and sort of luminescent.
My wedding is on New Years Eve so this was a fun table for me to see.
The use of blue, white and silver is a very traditional scheme for New Years Eve, although we are going with black, white and gold.

'Celebrate the Season'
What was interesting was the mug set in the bowl on its side.
Change things up.
People will notice and think you are a creative genius.

'Quiet Moment with Amy Tan'
The gold metal place mats really were the wow factor here, but the tablecloth, napkins, dishes and glassware were all beautiful and the whole table worked well together.

'The Year of the Dragon'
Love these dishes.
Hate this table covering with them.
No, no, no.

'Bridal Shower for Amanda'
Pretty chargers and an even prettier table covering.

'Come Watson...The game is afoot'

Fun table.

The colors, butterscotch colored chargers, black and white I can not remember what the pattern is called checks under the chargers and diy wrapped around the stems of the glassware and mugs, and especially the clues.

I am not sure how to fold this but it is a great way to add a little something to your table.

'Snowflake Couture'
Loved the place settings, hated the centerpiece, it was far too simple, skinny and sparse for the beautiful setting.
Large square gold chargers, smaller round silver chargers, beautiful mix of dishes and an amazing table covering.

'A Hot Time in Old Town Tonight'
A tribute to the Sacramento Jazz Jubilee.
The setting was well done, black, white, gold chargers with clear plates on top and a musical note set between, music table cloth and ribbon around the napkins.
But please pay attention to the details, angle the flatware if you choose, but don't forget to fix it if angled was not the plan.

'Winter Wonder'
At first I could not understand why oh why there were dried up carrots and some prunes on every other salad plate.
Then I happened to step back and 'duh', a snowman.
What a moron I was.
A small napkin and knife for a hat, napkin and bells for a scarf and fork and spoon for arms.
It was really cute once I got a clue.

'The Mercury is Falling'
Each place had a different piece of pewter and they were all very to die for.
I loved this table, just a different table cloth with a bit of something deserving of the plates and mercury glass centerpiece.

Just well done.
My favorite part is the little silver plates with trees and Santas.

'You're a Grand Old Flag'
Simple, affordable and fun.
The napkin rings are ornaments I think with a bandana for a napkin.

'Into the Woods'
Ferns and twigs centerpiece that was beautiful, wood slices for chargers, branches for candle holders and a moss topper.
I love these Amber colored square plates.

Once again, just a little creativity makes a huge difference, this time with a bit of burlap ribbon.

'Aren't Babies Grand'
A baby shower table that was okay.
But what was on the chair back was adorable.

A vintage stork and baby, what's not to love?

The branch risers are very diy, but what I like is the criss cross twine wrapped utensils.

If you do not have fancy flatware, then dress up the presentation.

'Camel Lot'
First, I love the name of this table.
Part of the fun when I still volunteered was coming up with a name.
Everything is perfect here, especially the gilded tea glasses.
My maternal grandparents came from the middle east and I grew up with these.
Don't have camel plates?
Just stick a print of one under a glass plate.

'Free Bird'
These were my favorite plates of the event.
Everyone had their jeweled initial at their place.

'Autumn'
Okay, these dishes took 2nd place in my heart, probably because they remind me of when I was young.
The napkins were also beautiful.

So there you have it.

Until next year that is.

Often more tables are added after the programs have been printed and I could not remember all the table names so if I did not put it that is why.

Something I have suggested before is to keep a set of clear glass plates around.
Don't use them every day because they lose their sparkle after awhile, but they are so versatile.
Slap a beautiful oversized paper plate underneath and the color just pops creating every holiday you can think of.
Use a charger and in between you can slip photos, fern stems, flowers or petals, doilies, pretty paper, etc..
Instead of a charger you can use the photos from a favorite calendar.
These are the most versatile plates ever and the possibilities are only limited by your imagination.